Yeah I feel what Apostrophe is saying, that's what I'm doing at the moment and it's getting me hoes. But as to that whole friend thing, I'm in that EXACT same situation with this girl I really like. I've wanted to get with her on and off since Christmas but never told her, and had to watch as she got with all these other guys who turned out to be lame. I mean they weren't assholes to her (I would have beat them down) they were just too lame and didn't satisfy her. I'm planning on making a move on her soon, cause I know for a fact she gets jealous when I talk about the other girls I get with. Whenever I talk about the girl who lives 130 miles away she gets pretty moody and says "oh HER..." She confuses me though, I know she probably likes me a little bit but she's obssesed over about 5 other guys as well, which pisses me off. So until she realises who she SHOULD be getting with *points finger at self* I'm just gonna keep on playing.

Let a player play, but don't ever tell a girl you love her
Unless you you're actually planning on fucking nobody but her