Man, I already addressed that. If the conditions were different, we wouldn't be here. So what? Something else would be.
I love the next part of your post.
If the universe was chaotic, there would be nothing but matter particles floating aimlessly throughout an endless space.
Newsflash: The universe IS a bunch of matter floating around in endless space. We are on one of the countless rocks in the infinite universe, so what if the conditions are right for life here? On the few planets we have studied, the conditions havent been right for life as we know it. Bad luck, I guess earth just got lucky.