just talk to em when they're sober and talkin about the night before just be like "haha, yeah man, that ws funny..but if you coulda seen yourself, you'd be humilliated man, all stutterin and sluring, eyes all fadin and shit. talkin all loud and beligerant, ignorant and bein an asshole to everybody, even your boys. i know you're not like that man, so if you could see yaself from the outside your face would be beet red"

and just leave it at that.

if they don't get the hint after that, might have to cut their alchoholic ass loose b.

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