its because of women. if a man could walk around in his average derelict deamenor and not worry about if he can "score" with women then he would. in today's reality - womanistic society have placed an importance on how their men look, so we try to better our appearence....for pussy.

personality wise I believe it comes down to a man's role models, if he spent most his life around mom and grandma and dad was not around or always busy, then yes, of course he'd unintentionally acquire and immitate those mannerisms to a certain degree.

i scratch my balls on a regular basis,I'm an athelete yet im also a very well-groomed young man. I get my hair cut and nails done bi-weekly, my wardrobe also consists of more than just t shirts and baggy jeans and hoodies, and I work out everyday. All this, why? because women love it..they love me.