lol i was talking in general(as in for everybody)... if you spend so long talking to a girl and go to the bar and buy only yourself a drink several times and dont once offer, they concider it bad mannered/rude and start to loose interest. thats something i a) learned and b) have been told by pretty much every female i know, including my mother.

if you go to the more expensive bars you tend to get one of two things, chicks that know they have enough money so therefore just want a chat and dont care about jackshit else.

or the girls who look for sum1 with more money than them.