Aight man.....if you want the chick to stay for ythe long haul no matter what, do what Zone said. It's respectable and classy chicks dig that shit cause it takes the pressure off since she doesn't have to worry about you jumpin her for a quick nut. If you want to know where you stand with her on the first date, then take my advice in my previous post. Alcohol is not all about getting a chick loaded in hopes for a motionless fuck. It helps loosen people up with their conversations as well

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