That's what I've been doing... Just sort of going along with it and agreeing with her.

I think it does work to an extent. Having your goal in mind constantly, you are more likely to do things that work towards it rather than things that don't. Somebody who is thinking "I want X" every single day is more likely to get X than someone who once thought they wanted X, then didn't think of it again until later on.

But that's just common sense, not some mystical secret of the universe.

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