Word man....you can get a simple premade layout if you don't want to go through all the hassle of learning some quick HTML at a page like
www.freelayouts.com or something like that.
As for the friend adder.....they don't want you using them, but I'd say the best one is Friend Blaster Pro. The newest version is 7.3
Theres hacks online for it, you just gotta find them
