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Originally Posted by L.E

Replace her BC pills with sugar ones.

LOL.

Dick Stole my idea.

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Originally Posted by Baphomet

if she really loves you bro, she would give you that gift...

theres ways of approaching this without anyone losing out.. but the real question is, whats HER reason for not wanting kids?

is it some cliche bull about not wanting to bring up children in this 'fucked up world' ?

or whats the deal here..

cause once you get to the bottom of her reasoning, you can construct a method of bending the rules of her (probable) philosophies to get your way for reasons she views as acceptable over her innitial stubborn approach to the situation..

That's pretty easy to say considering it won't sit in you for 9 months, harshening everything you do and then come out YOUR vagina. If she really loves you...then she loves you but doing something against your moral code for someone you love isn't being very true to yourself. In fact, if you truly love someone, who's to say you shouldn't go the other way and put yourself through the opposite misery for the good of the person you love.

In all, I can't say i know what you should do here or have any really GOOD advice but i will say this... there are other girls out there.

I realize you really REALLY like this girl but some issues go beyond the realm of love. Having children is often one of them. Finally, agreeing on everything has a tendency to be a killer of a relationship. No one (no matter how much they argue) wants a relationship with no conflict in it. Such a situation will quickly bore the shit out of both of you and since a long term relationship pretty much becomes the never ending struggle to not finally tire of your mate, no conflict will become a chief weapon in that war.

Me and my girlfriend are complete opposites. I'm a rapper, she's a metal head. I'm fairly clean cut and neat, she's a messy, uber pierced, over tattoed freak. We argue, we fight and we love eachother. We're together not because we agree on everything all the time but because we've come to realize that everything we do is a necessary part of my (or her) life and that because we love each other, every choice is made considering her (or my) feelings.