I hear what you're saying. I feel the same way, not necessarily towards asians, but certain nationalities I just don't really see myself with. It's not racism or anything, just personal preference.

If she's a cool girl, then I'd say try and put your preferences aside and give it a go, assuming that as you said earlier, a relationship might be the only way to get her in bed. If you can hit it without going full swing into relationship mode, then that's great too, but you never really know till you give it a try.

I don't know though, I guess all situations are different, but I'd say go for it.

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