You know how my mom used to describe my dad to me

'he may have been a bad husband, but that doesn't mean he's going to be a bad father to you (even though he wasn't around)'

i'd always ask about him, and she always said ...the way he treated me wasn't the way he would treat you


n i met him when i was liek 18 and she was right, i loved him, cool guy we got along and shit

parent hood and realtionships are soooo different

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