sometimes its ok but generally i hate it too when someone just shows up. this one dude i know he doesnt have a housekey (cuz they cant trust him) and he stays at his grandparents place. dude calls i dont answer cuz i know exactly what he wants so he just shows up at my door after midnight fuckin expecting me ta let him stay overnight like i dont have a fuckin problem with it. not to mention i cant trust him with my eyes closed since i already kicked his ass out for stealing an ipod from me (he used ta live with me) pisses me off...but in your situation i wouldnt see it as a problem

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