Dang bro.. I know what you mean.. That shit ain't healthy period. If you can't have your freedom or be who you are man its not worth it. Unless you believe you can seriously work this shit out man, try to approach her other ways. Thats all I can think of. Good Luck homie.. my situation is different from yours.. shes other side of country but fckin hot as hell.. .. but at the same time since i trained with the marines and got fit.. there are hella just as hot women here in vegas as her.. but none of em are as loyal or as good nah mean? fckin life is gay aint it?

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