JTR, you are wasting your time.

I have found the most pointless agruments I have ever been involved in are always with Christians. They are closed, or very narrow minded individuals that are nothing but ignorant when anything valid that goes against their beliefs is brought to their attention.

You do not have to serve somebody, you have to serve yourself. That is all the advice a person can really give to such people.

I just choose to not bother with them anymore because if they want to enjoy a life following rules that hinder potential and keep them from experiencing some of the greater things life has to offer, so be it. More for myself and anybody else that can think for themself.