Nah it's more like I beat you up, and THEN I help you up and ask you if you wanna go get some beers. I don't really care about the shit you said anymore. I might keep an opinion i've formulated on someone from their actions like for instance you steal 10$ out of my wallet and then thouroughly apologise after I punch you, I won't care that you stole 10$ and we'll be cool but I won't trust you again around my money.

But that's too an extent, lets say you killed my parents or something on that level then I won't get over that.