Look Nobody here is understanding.. we're all adults right? Well atleast some of are.. I live with my man.. I'm engaged to my man.. I have a ring on my finger that say's our love will be forever.. Sex is part of a healthy relationship. No matter how you put it. I'm not a kid anymore and I'm not ashamed to talk about it. That's all that matters. I'm not a slut. I don't fuck around so to speak. But there is nothing wrong with sex. Especially when your with the person you love and will be spending the rest of your life with. OoNnEe... I have nothing more to say on the subject except if you don't understand then you have more growing up to do.