with me it's who ever i made plans with first. Besides me and my niggaz are beyond that. We all chose our girls over each other cause we gonna stay niggaz regardless. We all looking ahead to the future with families and shit and that requires some sacifices and we all know what the mean and we don't take it personal. But the only rule is that you girl can't make you change you plans with your boys and vise versa. Cause, I love my girl but if I planned something with my niggaz then she'll just be left out. Believe me, over here everyone knows the deal. Holla.