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Old 11-27-03, 12:17 AM   #3
The Necromancer
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Hm... in regards to this peice, it was a simple yet emotionally deep peice. And it perfectly conveyed and expressed the situation you're in.

As for the situation itself... fuck.. if I had a guy who cheated on me twice, I'd dump him. Guys and girls are different. Generally, though not always, when a girl cheats it's because she's trying to get back at her man for something. And while that doesn't justify it, it's a lot better a reason than why a man would cheat.

A man cheats because they want to get laid. No ifs ands or buts about it. Thing is, I don't want to be one of those people who say "Once a cheater, always a cheater" because that is wrong to say. Everyone changes.

But if I were you, I'd still dump him. Cheating once, depending on the situation, can be forgivable. Cheating twice, that's only forgivable under the most extrenuous circumstances. But I wouldn't give that guy a chance to cheat on you again until he does one important thing. Grow up and mature. Until he's mature enough to handle a relationship, he's probably not the best guy to be with.

But that's just my two cents. You probably shouldn't listen to me. I know if I was gay, I'd never be able to get a man anyway.

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