i dont know the scripther reference, but it says you must find a woman that is 'equally yoked'.
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it goes on the specify what that means, but to me it means you both must be of the same spirit and faith in Jesus. A believer should not marry a non believer. i would not of made it through last night if i were not equally yoked. if i had to deal with a non believer last night, i would have had to probably call the cops like your sister with her 'baby daddy'. and if i were not a believer, i dont think she would have made it to the phone.

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