JTR, hey man, marriage is a good institution. they give you a lot of tax easements (your tax rate is cut nearly by half!) after getting married and a lot of fiscal opportunities exist only to the married. better employment becomes available to you because people see you take commitments and better loans also become within your reach. on the relationship side, a lot of your perspectives on how obstacles affect you and your lover change when you realize you're unified rather than just dating. and what's craziest about this all is not too long ago I felt exactly like you did now.

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