man what you need to do is not make a big event of your gayness. you dont' have to "come out" to dude, that's a little extra dramatic and highly unneccessary. and you don't gotta fake liek you like girls, you also don't need to feed into "man she's so hot "shit you can just stop commenting on shit you don't endorse. there's a billion other things you can discuss other than chicks on the job. if he eventually comes to the conclusion you're gay (which he prolly already has) then that's that, if he's a real person it won't change shit - until you go hitting on him.


but when you make your homosexuality a big deal you force people to take a position on it. you essentially say "do you agree with my lifestyle or do you not". and 9 straight guys out of 10 won't be in your favor. don't make an event of it like "gay" is WHO you are, it's just an aspect, like golf.

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