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I have a lot to learn...
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Too right, Q..
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Originally Posted by Implicit
I'm telling you man. Expectations. Voice it. Communication. Yee!
Also there's this book that I've read that talks about the most effective ways that people feel loved. There was things such as:
1) Buying Gifts
2) Spending Time
3) Saying Nice Things
Little things like that. It's important to know which way is most effective to the other party. You want that person to feel special, don't you? Well then figure it out and do it.
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That is my problem. wtf is all that shit? I could buy gifts for, spend time with and say nice things to somebody and make them feel loved, when really I have no feelings for them whatsoever. My gf constantly buys me gifts, says nice things to me and spends time with me, but I question whether she understands love, and whether what she sees as love is shallow or not. |