Man, I feel you on this. But this girl you like may not want to hurt this fellow, and I mean he was there first, nah mean? but I would keep talking to her. When you hear her tell you that you should stay away from her then do so. But if she doesn't say anything then she obviously wants you in her life. In one way or another, as friends or more than friends. But I've been in this situation before and I stuck with the girl and everything worked out fine. But my situation was a little less complicated because they weren't exaclt boyfriend and girlfriend. But If I were you I would keep talking to her. Wordness.

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