Emotions are our weekness, just like we are your's. For example that girl at the party you tryed to tell her that your freind was not into her just what he wanted from her and yet she went on home with him. The girl probably felt a bit apprehensive about him and started to show that but she realy dug him and wanted to not belive it. Then him bein the player you say he is would've asked some kind of a why question to try and seem to be concerned for her emotionally that would give her the sense of caring and that would make her want to not belive what you told her more. She may have even said he told me you just want to play me and I'm not down for that, but then him bein a player would've had some kind of play on her emotions to counter act what you had told her any way.....But you can not say that all females are sluts or what ever, because there are some who are and some who aren't. Some players play on the emotoins of chicks they manipulate them with false emotions to get what they want. Others play them self by doing the same thing, only for a different reason usually being they were played them self and don't want to be again so........ Be the player rather then bein played. But thats the same for both male and female. I found that players that play only not to get hurt usually are only playin themself . And as far as chicks go those who think they are beautiful will try to use it, and those chick that are truly beautiful will never see themself as so.

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