I'm with this chick that I really dig, she's attractive as hell to me, has all the right morales, we agree on everything mentally and physically,

but we have one main conflict.



I want to have kids. She doesn't.

I told her things could change, maybe, over time.

She told me she really thinks she doesn't want to have them.

Your opinions on this ? Things could get ugly if I stay with her for like 16 years of my life thinking she'll come around and want to have children before Menopause, so, I wanted to know what you all thought. Drop your honest two cents about a boy and a girl agreeing on everything except for children.

Would you say one would have to compromise, would you say it's best to not even get involved, or would you say that convincing the other with all their might would be the only choice, but if it's to no avail, give it up ?

Thanks if you're a decent mother fucker.

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if she really loves you bro, she would give you that gift...

theres ways of approaching this without anyone losing out.. but the real question is, whats HER reason for not wanting kids?

is it some cliche bull about not wanting to bring up children in this 'fucked up world' ?

or whats the deal here..

cause once you get to the bottom of her reasoning, you can construct a method of bending the rules of her (probable) philosophies to get your way for reasons she views as acceptable over her innitial stubborn approach to the situation..

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She does not like kids.

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hold old are you again???...not being funny but fa real....
enjoy life....i understand you want kids but hopefully you dont
want kids now....i mean things can change...right now i would
enjoy life and shit because shit is going to change when you bring
kids into the picture....i dont have any but my cousin has one and
shit aint easy....just enjoy your relationship with her...or your time
or how ever you want to put it....see where things go...she may change her mind

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It's not that, it's that she was told by some "professional" that before people get into deep relationships (as me and her are moving into) all of their values should not conflict. So I'm making this fucking thread. Got it?

Thanks for the "Enjoy life and don't worry about it" though. I can understand YOUR values right off the bat..

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what is that suppose to mean???

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lol @ 2v

first off, you dont even have your own place.....get a fucking home before you bring a lil furry faced 2v jr. up in this bitch

second off, FUCK YOU BITCH.....you hated on me having a HEALTHY lil amazing girl...so i hope that your fucking ass never has ANY KIDS. N if you DO have a kid...i hope they got down syndrome

third off....KARMAS A REAL BITCH, NUCCA!

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aphilly hows fatherhood treating you?

and 2v the girl will change mentally over time to come so it's not worth giving up or her giving up on you just yet

its awsome dude....shes dope bro. We took her down for her first doctors appt. and the doctor only said she had one problem......

...she sleeps to much.

I was like....i'll deal with that shit

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thats the same thing i said

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Thanks dark, and Unful.

Unful you said "Have fun and don't let it get to you, you're young"

in other words, if you and dark said exactly the same thing, he at least said it better.

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well ahhh well ahh i ahhh lol
look at my last line baby
i said she might change her mind

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I hope she does.. I'll have to work on it... *coughs*

I never wanted to see aphil's pic again... Why the fuck did you sig it? If I wanted to see aphil's ugly ass I woulda entered his picture thread twice. Like everyone on the site has entered mine, at least, twice.

Holla

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if she "hates" kids she just might not be ready for the responsibility yet...or just imature for relationship...

how long have u 2 been together? cuz i bet down the road she would want to have children but then again wut do i know

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