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Low Self Esteem
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Wow...
I've always been into psychology, having taken 3-4 psych. classes in college. And, what amazes me is how people behave and react when they have low self-esteem. I find it interesting that so many people display behavior that's balatantly caused by low self esteem. For example: My family's gatherings are always sketchy because of how everyone seems to treat everyone. One person in particular, my aunt Pat, always seems to have something negative to say about people. But, when I sat back and thought about it, I realized that she feels so bad about her self that she talks about other people to feel better. I see so much of this on RV and other web sites as well. It's chalk full of kids who feel bad about themselves (body, appearance, intellect, economic status) that they feel the need to criticize and put down other people. Example: I've sat back and watched Will Sun, Young Law, Too E Zee, and others put each other down about who is better looking, etc. Now, if you think about it, all three of them have insecurities about their looks. What they and everyone else needs to realize is this: degrading someone else doesn't boost you up in the least. STOP people. Here's what I suggest. Focus on your positive attributes. Every negative attribute has a positive counter-attribute that outweighs it. Example: If you are someone who is impatient and tempermental, stop focusing on the negative. I guarantee you that you are punctual and diligent in your work. Those are your strong points. Accentuate the positive. Love the Lord. Love yourself. Take care of your body. It's a temple. 1 |
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