Most people don't actually care about what they do to people. They care about what it means for their personality if they treat a person a certain way. They don't care if they actually harm a person, as long as they're moral image of themselves doesn't get distorted. These types of people will do the most grimiest shit in the world, but they won't care, why? Because they don't see themselves as people who would care about that sorta thing, so its no problem. But on the other hand, you have people who see themselves as complete fuckups, and do fucked up shit to people and dismiss it as them just being completly fucked up. Along with this you have the psychological veterans. These are the types of people who really don't believe in anything. All they believe in is that they're right. This way they don't even have a self at all. They just completely dwell on how other people feel and manipulate their shit with humor or sarcasm all to simply make themselves feel better about themselves completly ignoring what effect this might have on other people. Why am I pointlessly rambling about this? Let's just say some people are missing their baby. Some people had a chance to get their baby, and these people who had the chance are more concerned with defending their moral judgement on not getting the kidnapped 2 year old back(they were fully aware of their chance btw, instead they did nothing) than actually helping these people get this child they care about back. Yeah most people on this planet would be filled with ALOOOOOOOOOT of hatred if they had to deal with people like themselves all the time. I'm done -_-