What u rather do struggle as a grown independent man

Or

Live at home with ur parents and make money with also no bill to pay???




Here a little story for ya give me ur feed back....

I'm a grown ass man with 2 kids a 11 month old and 7 year old, with my own apartment I rent, with a car note I pay by weekly with insurence for 2 cars, 200 doller cell phone bill a cable bill plus a shit load of fines and bill collectors for pass due payments but I live in my home with my wife we living how we want I smoke my weed and drink when I want I don't have to listen to people tell me what to do and to clean my room ( god I use to hate that) even thou I struggle to pay for everything and to keep focus I still do it and I I'm loving it


Now.....

My friend is 25 with he's girl he been with 5 years they both make 18 an hour at 2 different jon but he get paid 50 cent more lol, but they don't haave no kids they don't have rent to pay and no credit cards to pay only hess girl got a 06 montero sport and insurence and a cell phone bill that's 80 dollers and he don't help her pay for it...

my thing is this....

Would u rather struggle at home and have freedom to do whatever u want and live the grown man life...

Or

Be at home making good money and have no bills yet have to answer to mommy qand daddy and have no freedom ever????

I rather struggle like I have been what about ya???

Well to be honest id rather be on my own, i did it that way since i was 12. Yeah theres been times of struggle in the past but now i make an easy living without having to shift my ass what so ever. If i had to do the day to day shit that others do and struggle then id rather be at home with parent to save up my chips....
Im jus lucky coz no matter what iv made money whatever iv done so its all gud but saying that being made homeless by my self that young i guess im lucky it didnt blow up in my face ya know).

Goodluck to anyone who is making that decision in there life right now!

peace

That's some real talk right there and I can respect that 100% word some people don't know how life gonna turn out so why wait till you force to face reality rather then act on it now befor it acts on you feel what I'm saying????


What you gonna do if god forbid ur parents die today??? Being at home as the baby and u 25 and u making good money you should of been left 4 years ago when u got ur job and car paid for in full but he rather live that baby life and I'm trying to help him realise he need to grow up they won't be there ya whole life and he don't get it... he thinks I'm jealous because I'm not in he's shoes which is far from it because niggas respect me for being a man taking care of home but with him niggas always crack jokes like u still got to be home before midnight?? Lmfao lol. Then all he can say is yea but I make more money then you..... but what that mean if u have notijg to show for it??? U live at home u got a 97 acura cl 2.2 with no added feature shit still stock I mean danm what the fuck and he just got the I phone and I've been had my g1 so its like I'm doing better but how if u make more money???? I just hope he ready when its time to move out and be a man..... that's all....

Yeah dude. But at the end of the day its a decision that people make coz they prefer it that way. But one thing for sho is that your mate is gonna have a big shock to the system if he dont grow up quick.
His got it easy but if he dont learn how to look after himself, he woulda had plenty of years easy or easier but when the time comes he will regret it for sho and probably have more years of struggel then he did have easy. get me man....
Jus be proud of what ya achieveing yaself and dont even bother thinking about his mistakes or life or you can do is give him advice-if he takes it in great, if he dont fuck it his problem.Just dont let him drag you down the same path.

Eazy brah....

rich spoiled kids make me sick, I know 25 year olds who stilll have their mom do thier luandry and buy thier clothes for them, and another 24 year old who still gets a weekly allounace even though he has a good apying job, I never had the option to not completly fend for myself since I finished high school so my opinion is a little bias.

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It's ok to make money, Legit or illegal...
But it's treason when you turn your back on your people.

looks like you only had, one way

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My house has moral issues.

Are you really being the baby only if you stay with mommy and daddy? What if your daddy left mommy and you're staying with mommy as she stays with a new daddy and neither you or your mom pay any money towards the guy you're staying with?

That guy = my father.

So I stay here just to get the free ride before I start college. Considering the form of education I'm looking for, I'll have to go live in D.C. or Bmore to begin my higher learning.

So frankly this question doesn't apply to me except what I'd RATHER do.. and personally I can't choose. Either way is 100% fine by me..

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this is a notice... me and my blood sister (not the step) are the only two people in this house who have payed rent. So before you start fully taking in the word "Free ride" just realize I mean "sort of". As I said, moral issues.

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I'm bout to finish my degree in may so when i no longer have full time studying in the way of me getting full time work instead of part time (its sick pay by part time standards over here but renting a place would see me with zero ways of paying the rest of my bills, like my phone, gym, credit cards, travel) im moving out and gettin a place wid my fiancée. i don't really know how people can love living at their parents house n shit, i mean don't get me wrong me and my mother get on real well but im 21 n shit and not being able to move due to financial constraints is frustrating as hell

but patience is a virtue i guess

Now 2v I feel you and understand your situation so no ur not geting a free ryde its just till school starts that's diffrerent.....

Dark. I see what u mean aswell school is number 1 as long as that's why u staying at home which is cool....

Now understand what I'm saying about my man....

He's 25 about to be 26 in nov...
He went to school for 1 semester got a gpa of 1.0 and he's grants was cancelled and he quite school this was 4 years ago during the time he got the job...

He's father paid half of he's car which was 2500 and he paid 2500 which is noting when u starting at 15 an hour plus tax return....

He has been with this girl before he got he's job and she was already working making 14.60 so she was buying him hats clothes weed jordans whatever he want she got the nigga a 900 doller chain....

He don't pay rent, car note, no credit cards, no school, no child so def no child support no noting...

He do pay for he's insurence and a 80 phone bill that's it....
He ain't put noting in he's car since he got it which was 4 years already...
He don't got no ps3 no xbox 360 no computer....

4 years has pass since all this happen or started and guess what...
He now makes 18.50 an hour and noting else has change...
He got a little gear which ain't what u would exspect making the kind of money he do..
He just got the I phone like 2 weeks ago... and he bought some dum bells and weights which he don't even use....

What the fuck is wrong with him?????

I ask him when he came to my house why he still live at home he said cuz he wanna buy a house to get built... WTF? You need credit you need a decent down payment which u have no credit and no money saved for it either wtf do he spend he's money???

He also a funny style friend because when we both was down we chill all the time now since he got this job after the 1st year we ain't chill at all really its sad when he's girl brother come to my house more then him and I knew him frist and we was way closer now you wouldn't even think we know each other...

Do u think its cool to forget ya friends u grew up with just because now u know people at ur job and it seems like now he only chill with niggas if u got a job and don't have a wife like I'm married and I work I don't make what u make but even if I did I have a shit load of bills to pay so now its like its only niggas who make good money and have no girl yooooo this nigga see my brother more then me and he live in new york and I'm 1 1/2 hours away in pa and that shit is crazy my own brother when he up here calls him first and go to the club or bar spend money on drink for the nigga and then leave back to new york and would never tell me he even came nor stop by to say what's sup or noting....

Now u tell me if that ain't fucked up...

So I try to talk to him on some real shit like uve been playing me like u don't know me what's good I left message and when I ask him he said he never got'em and then he never told me he's new number he's girl brother when he came ova one day told me it...... so I told him I'm not ya bitch u don't gotta stand me up but for real u need to grow the fuck up get ya ass out the crib get ya own spot get ya whip looking right or switch up, and makwe sure u remeber who was here for u when u got press remem ber who held u down when u need it remember who drove u around looking for girls remember who put you on to the smoke spot in nyc where u go all the time yet never come see me with a l like yo what's good let's smoke real quick or noting and he think its cuz I'm jealous WTF????? Yo this dude was my right hand but now a days he's more like the shit I drop in the toiket......


So do anyone have advice on what I should do and how to approuch it.....

I am on my own now because I kinda chose to. My parents can't even support me anyway so it wouldn't help if I stayed home.

BUT...if I could stay at home I totally would so that I could save money. The wise choice is to stay home and save up like a muuug. And then when you got bank, then you move out. Wish I coulda done that.

lol, there are always options

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It's ok to make money, Legit or illegal...
But it's treason when you turn your back on your people.

like, not smoking pot in front of children?

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that's one option

second option is blind folding.

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or in poetic's mind, having sex with children

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Don't think I smoke weed in front of my kids hell nah when they at grandmom or when they sleeping at night or I just tell my wife I'm going to the car to smoke and then I do me.... just to clear that up...