I feel like I was born and raised in the last few years of real men. It seems like anyone I meet born afta 84 85 and 86 is pretty much guaranteed to be a ho ass nigga. I worry about the future because ho ass niggas cannot be allowed to run the world. The problem is that they're becoming the majority. The popularity of spinners proves that. Brothas are emptying out their bank accounts so they can have a shiny piece of metal that spins. It's fucking rediculous! How did things get this way?

I remember when I became aware of the situation. It was during the mid '90s when MC lyte had a hit song called "Roughneck". It sounded like a bunch of bullshit. Here was this pro-black activist\rapper telling females to go chase thugs. I noticed females start changing their expectations of males. There were always girls who liked thugs, but now everybody had to be a thug to get some pussy. My homeboy calls it "Ho-tivation". That's when men bend over backwards for a female to get some pussy. So now everyone wanted to be a thug. Thats song also made it dawn on me that these thugs were a bunch of grown ass babies. Here were a bunch of grown ass men walking around wearing berrets and sucking on 40s like baby bottles. They always walking around with they shirts off and and got their diapers, oops, draws showing and sit around on the porch all day. Sounds like a toddler to me. Go watch "Boyz in the Hood", "Menace II Society", or "Baby Boy" and tell me you don't see the same shit.

Now men think they have to be pretty, not handsome, pretty. Once again "Ho-tivation" rears it's ugly head. I remember watching TV one day and I saw an interview where a woman said guys should use dangerous drugs to look good even if it might kill them. And you know what? Guys are doing it. It seems like everyone is juicing nowadays. The biggest change is with tatoos. Guys used to have tatoos of military patches, ships, tanks, and large dangerous animals. Their designs had a story behind them. Now what do they have? Meaning less forms. There are women out there who don't date guys without tatoos.

And then there's the promescuity. Men have always tried to sleep with as many attractive women as possible. The difference is that now there are men who sleep with as many people as possible, period. Male, or female, it doesn't matter. But these people don't call themselves gay or bisexual. They say they're straight because they pefer women, and the men are just out of convenience. They get angry if you call them gay because they don't like the gay image. Remember, style over substance. These are the same brothers giving people HIV. Ladies, you can bet that if he ain't using protection with you, he ain't using it with men. Afterall, he can not only get a disease but an unwanted pregnancy from you, but Tyrone down the block can't get pregnant.

Last but not least you have the violence aspect. This isn't the same kind of violence I mentioned earlier. There is no goal to this kind of aggression. In general females are more violent than men, but men do more damage. Now we have a bunch of men with the violent drive of women, but the strength of men. How many times have you seen a guy start a fight with someone he can't win against and then run to his car to get a gun when the other guy is ready to whoop his ass. That used to be called "being a pussy". Now it's called "keeping it gangster". Men used to take pride in being able to go one on one barehanded, now you fight in groups of eight against one. Having to team up against one man is seen as "gangster". And the hoes love gangster.

Now that you understand what a ho ass nigga is you won't be shocked when you see a drug dealer sell dope to his own little brother or sister. You won't be shocked when your homeboy tried to fuck your girl, after all you can only offer friendship (substance) but she has a pussy (sensation). A ho ass nigga always picks sensation over substance. Now you see why thugs get so upset over snitches. They can't take responsibilty for taking a risk and having to deal with the consequences. They talk alot of shit about "game", but have no tactics. In a game, the oppostion uses as many tools (ie police) to destroy you as possible. The enemy doesn't owe you a fair game, and there is no honor among thieves. You lost, just deal with it. But of course it's never his fault...

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