yea who's parents are divorced and how did you handle it when they did? my parents got divorced back when i was in the 5th grade. yea i miss living in the house i shared alot of my childhood memories with and my parents bounced around alot after the divorce mainly round the same area. the hardest was when my dad lived in mayville for 4 years. cuz he was too far away ta see and the only time i could see him was every other weekend for just those 2 days.

my parent's marriage wasnt anything special to begin with. my dad was in the coastguard when i was born so he was gone ALOT. for a long time it was just me and my mother back when i was a baby. so my mother was pretty much neglected due to a lack of time spent with my dad. then when my dad got out of the coastguard they would fight CONSTANTLY and for the longest time i'd take my mothers side on alot of it. i used to believe she was innocent of it all and that she was more like being attacked by my father and just treated unfairly. my father would take alot of my mothers pay checks and "borrow" money from my birthday cards to pay for bills he couldnt pay which still didnt help cuz sometimes we'd have the electricity or phone lines turned off. he even had his own personal P.O box for letters and shit to hide the secret affairs going on that mother didnt know about. but after my mother found out bout the secret affairs she wanted a divorce.

now that their divorced i simply understand now that my dad isnt the "bad guy" i viewed him as and that my mother simply drove him to do it so i forgive him on alot of it and now its the exact oppisite. me and my father get along perfect now and me and my mother fight constantly. my dad simply was sick of her shit cuz she's one big ass unapreciative, negative, sarcastic, panic attack of a drama queen. she drove him away from the house, she drove him to fall for others, and she drove him to move out. shes too ignorant to understand anything i feel or go through so she's either too dumb to see it or she practicaly guesses and comes up with the most lamest excuses ever on why i feel the way i feel. shes always sooo fuckin off and its sad cuz she lives with me. she pisses me off beyond a point nobody else can make me reach so i dont even bother thinking bout her let alone see her. anyways i got LOTS more on the topic but its too much ta type. anyways fill us in bout ur stories.

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