1st off, don't even come in this thread and say, "what does this have to do with hip hop" when 90% of the threads in the LL aren't hip hop related. That's what the LL is for, topics that happen to be on your mind. Also, don't come in her saying "dude this site is 99.9% straight." SO. I'm not straight so I can talk about whatever it is that's pressing for me to talk about.

On that note...

DL...or down low...are men who have wives or girlfriends but secretly sleep with other guys on the side.

This phenomenon is probably more common that you think.

1st off, being "gay" is still looked down upon as a whole by society. So, many gay men suppress their feelings or hide their feelings so that they won't be rejected by society.

On top of that, many people are raised to think being gay is wrong so they lead false lives in a hope to assimilate or "fit in" with what is considered normal.

As a result, many of these men get married, have kids, have girlfriends, but are inwardly gay and sleep with other men.

If society would accept gay people, you wouldn't have this happen because people would feel proud and comfortable with who they are. Meanwhile, these DL men run the risk of spreading diseases to their wives or girls because they often don't use protection when sleeping with guys.

Why is that? The reason they don't use protection is because carrying around a condom to sleep with a man would be admitting to yourself that you're gay. And, these men make it a practice of denying that altogether. Therefore, they sleep with men in a state of self-denial, which increases their risk of picking up STDs. All this is because of the stigma of being gay. They just can't help it.

I met this guy who turned out to be married. I was almost tempted to "go there" until he showed me pictures of his kids like you would show someone at a BBQ or something. When he did that, I was like "hell naw". I was done.

I just wish society would be more tolerant of peoples differences so that people could feel comfortable being who they truly are.

Oh, and here's a shocker...

I personally believe the AIDS epidemic is partly to blame on society. Gay men tend to have to be more secretive in their sexual encounters and often run the risk of having unprotected sex for the aforementioned reasons. Yes, I blame society itself for the current Aids epidemic. If gay men were accepted as equals to straight men, then they wouldn't feel the need to sneek around and be promiscuous. It's all psychology. It's like when you ostracize someone, they feel like the have "nothing else to lose" so they lose self respect and do things people who are "loved" wouldn't do.

Straight guys are not better than gay guys. There are gay doctors, lawyers, politicians, actors. Every position in life has been filled by a gay person at some point or another. So, thinking gay people can't be productive members of society is bologna.

Also, many gay people have children, the NATURAL way. I know for a fact that when I'm more settled in life, I plan to have kids. Many gay people also adopt and are loving parents.

Simply put, stop allowing biases and ignorance to drive your disdain and intolerance for a group or people. Get to know someone. Chances are, you'll like them BECAUSE OF, not inspite of, their differences.


And NO, I am not one of those gay guys who thinks that EVERYONE is gay. I know plenty, plenty of straight men who are happy and content being straight. But, I do know that there are MANY guys who live double lives because of the intolerance of society.

Nuff said

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You wanna know another wide spread phenomenon?

Faggets that think everyone else is a closit fagget when their not....

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No Nos...I just happen to believe YOU are a closet case because you are a case study in self denial.

How does it feel to hate yourself?



Move along buddy. I know MANY straight men who are happy and content. You just happen to NOT be one of them.

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What a way to agree with me......


By accusing a straight man of being a closit gay.

Good one buddy...

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LOL @ you...sure...whatever "YOU" say...You said "EVERYONE"...I don't think "EVERYONE" is gay...Just YOU.

Anyone ever see a pic of Nos' girl?

Anyone ever see Nos talk about his EXPERIENCE with girls?

No...What have we seen...Nos being overly-hetero (i.e., lesbian porn etc.) as a way to compensate for something...

hmm...I actually HOPE you're straight because you'd be a fuck up in the gay community. WE DON'T WANT YOU.



*awaits come back of "the straight community doesn't want your uppity faggot ass*


yawns

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Whatever you say kiddo...

Keep proving me right.... Shits hilarious...

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See I honestly don't understand the point of this thread Q.

You claim that people are in denial yet your the one starting
all the threads,...

It's like you don't get the attention you want in real life so you
come on RV with your God & Gay threads.

Now I know what your going to say don't make assumptions but
you do that to us all the time claiming that we are all insecure.

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I'm gay and..

This is an issue that's prevalent...BET had a recent special on it...Tyra Banks and Oprah had specials on it. PRIMETIME LIVE had a special on it.

So, yea, why would I think YOU being reluctant to understand it means that you are insecure? Bro, I'm not here to make anyone comfortable. If you're not interested in the issue, move on. At least you're more knowledgeable about an issue in society, WHICH was the point of me making this thread.

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Well I don't watch Oprah or Tyra Banks or have primetime TV from the
US but you didn't answer my question !! which I didn't think you would
but when I come back tomorrow I will be waiting to see how many
people thought this was a issue worth disscussing,...

P.s I wasn't reluctant to understand it coz I do I just looking deeped
under all the psychobable and all your posts and I can see that your
way more insecure then I am.

Anyway gotta go but nahh homosexuals don't bother me at all so
please don't try and pull that shit.

Stay up

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Actally, if you read your first post, you don't actually pose a question.





But, I love how so-called STR8 guys think a gay guy can CONVERT them. Like I said, this is a prevalent issue, and one I HAPPEN TO BE INTEREST IN. So, like anyone else in the LL, I brought this issue up. Just because YOU and some others aren't interested in it, doesn't mean it's not relevant.


Stop trying to pull "that" shit.

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NEWAY


I'm going to get my day started.


Have fun fellas.




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well...there was this gay hairdresser dude..who had his own salon..and was sleeping with a married man..whom was white..so they were fuckin..and later down the line...dude found out he had aids...knowin he sleeping with gay dudes and going back to his wife and kids with knowing that still messing with the wife..and what not..he automatically assumes its This paticular gay dude who gave it to him and coulda been. but needless to say..him and a friend rode to the salon late one night while gay man was getting off..had gay man at gun point shoved him in the back room BEAT him to death with a bat tied his hands and feet together..they said his face wasnt even identifiable.. .... yeah..shit was crazy tho...

Threatened?
Not at all..

Do I think your a dickhead?
Definatly...

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rofl@this ....dude i'm not even gonna read this entire thread,but GOOD LUCK trying to convince me or anyone else that most straight men have gay tendencies.....sure,probably u'll find a few WEIRD FUCKS who fuck faggots on the low......................but that is not the norm...one or two examples out of the billions of straight men out there is NOT a pattern my friend...i'm sure u'd like to think being a faggot is more common than not.......if it helps u sleep at night man,tell urself whatever u want....it doesnt change the fact that its disgusting,unnatural,u are fuckin someone's shithole that is designed to eliminate waste ,and a faggot shouldnt so much as say god's name, let alone turn around on sunday at 8am after droppin ur granny off at ur church,n log into RV to make threads about justifying ur homosexuality..................................... .................................................w hen u should be repenting instead and asking for forgiveness for putting ur dick that was created by god to make babies,into holes that he created as a waste eliminator.......

yes,i know u like to say my name in thread titles to get attention,n i know u'd like to somehow pin it on my man that he is gay,but u WISH .....yeah,u did try to holla at him on aim so obviously u do....what if find disturbing is,that u claim u are oh so confident about ur looks,and about ur sexuality,yet I was the one who had to drag you out of the closet after u made numerous attempts at trying to holla at straight dudes off rap boards,many underage may i add, and failed miserabely........................................ ...............

if u were this hot ,fine ,faggot like u like to think...u'd have a man,u'd be out doing things ,living life,n not trying to hook up with faggots on gay dating sites,not try converting underage kids on rapboards to homosexuality,n not spend 24/7 on a e-rapboard................

get a life

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