Commitment, like I said. If you have a friend with benefits it doesn't matter if you hook up with someone else, if you have a girlfriend, it does. Swingers are essentially all friends with benefits IMO.

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lmao, i was just playin sonny...

i dont even mess with a girl unless its gonna be/is a relationsihp...

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Fuck buddies is one thing..

You'll know it when your in love though...

Thats the difference...

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Fuck buddies is fuck buddies... GF/BF is like, the one you are sexually attracted to is also one of your best friends.

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Gimme your aim dephhhh

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I honestly dont like that friends with benefits bull shit...if I am in a relationship... its all his..I aint sharing no cookies with no other mofo...feel me...

I've always been the type of chick that is focuses on who I am with...I am the type that gives 60 percent to the relationship...People say that I love hard but if I have feelings for you Imma sho it...Imma be there and be down for you no mater what!!....(almost no matter what) lol

GOOD! YOU^^ Stay that way and alert others to your beliefs, hurry now.

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its my name backwards, whats yours? I gotta add you.

Well, you pretty much answered your own question, its just friendship on a more intimate level. Somebody you can confide in better than anybody else.

But I feel you deph, girls seem to treat all guys the same bf or not, they hug and say "I love you" and shit to everybody. Throughout my life, I havent met one girl that actually fit the definiton of a gf. Or at least my definition. =P

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i never really liked the friends with benefits...because 80 percent of the time. someone is going to become attached to the other person......and that person isn't gona be feelign that way towards the other...so friends with benefits...i'd just steer away from it..try to avoid it as much as possible

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Very true, Shear. Its happened in my case. On several occassions. lol And I was the victim each time. =P


I wouldnt say steer clear, my advice is to just let the girl go at her pace and just walk at her level each of the way and dont get ahead of her or yourself.

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"Tact is the knack of making a point without making an enemy."

What i've found is that love without attachment is the ultimate level. I have been with my gf for a long time, and I do love her and she loves me. I am happily binding myself to just one girl, and it doesnt bother me at all that I dont get others. Also, I have no desire to leave my gf, none at all.

The thing is I am too attached. It's kind of hard to explain... I feel as though if I were to lose her, I would not only feel bad, but I would feel like I have lost a part of my being. I don't what that second thing, just the bad feelings because feelings are easy to deal with. Right now im just trying to figure out how I can do it -_-.

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i guess your got a point there....i guess just don't caught up.........best thing

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