^ Lol at your attempt for me to write about it, i cant write to stuff while its happening. I have to of like .. Been through it and got through it before i feel like i can write about it.

Doubt it'll make any sense to you, but open mic heads will know what i mean. = )

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The opposite happened to me.
This girl i liked wanted a relationship but wasn't ready for sex.
Anyway cus i actually liked her a lot i stayed with her for a few months just to see how things went and now i get both.

And the sex is much better when you in a decent relationship,
I dropped a open mic about the first time,its clled:

A lesson in love

i can relate to you on this... cause this is the same thing thats happening to me right now also... i mean sex is ok with me you know? but i love the girl and i cant ever see her with someone else...

You have two options.....

Continue to tell her your feelings for her, butter her up and try to turn her around to getting serious

Or

You could just say fuck it......it isn't worth it....if she just wants sex then she can find it with someone else... and you can find a more mature woman who actually wants a relationship

You dont seem to of got what i meant at all for the most part .. she wants a relationship in the long run, its just she doesnt want it now, she thinks like .. somepeople live till there 100, im 18 now, i dont want to spend the next 80 years with one person, there's a time for settling down later in life - right now, she's young and there's a lot of stuff she wants to do - ( ambitions etc .. ) but i really like her and its just all fucked up .. lol .. i dont know what to do, i was thinking one of you might of been through something similar and had advice, and i expected the virgin kids to come in and say stuff like "id just keep slepping with her" because their too immature to really like someone for who they are rather than how quick they get their clothes off yet .. but yeah .. this is really getting me down now .. = /

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Well...I was in that position over the summer....

I've pretty much moved on......feelings come and go....but if you really want to try and hit off...then go right ahead

You know...in essence, a best friend with "privileges" is the same as a girlfriend...
In my mind it is...

So...maybe if she'll be a good friend with a side dish...

If she's set upon goals in the future...and really wants to follow through...then you really don't want to hold her back from that, later on you'll really regret holdering her back. yada yada.

Lose lose situation, just the thing is picking the loss you don't mind so much.

You dont love hoes. Go find your self a good girl..

This time know what type she is before you enter the game.

med. Besides, from what I've read the friends with benefits can't go wrong.

But i want more than that.
There's more to a relationship then sleeping with her when i like. = /

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But, if your best friends with her, that means you talk to her about everything, share feelings, all that. Much like a relationship.
You'll probably do all that cuddly stuff, lol.
And then there's the sex.

The physical aspect is the only "actual" difference between friend and relationship.

Cam..Shit Happens Man.. You Fall For Her, She Doesn't Want What You Want, Creates Drama. Its All One Big Line Of Shit That Happens. Eventually, If You Are Persistant, Then Only Time Will Let Cha Know.. But Until Then, Try An' Convince Her That She Doesn't Only Want Sex. Spend Time Wit Her.. n' This May Be Hard, But DONT SLEEP WITH HER.. Show Her A Good Time. She'll Fall For You If You Treat Her Right. Just Make Her Feel Like You Revolve Around her Yet Showing Her That You Are In Charge At The Same Time. This Will Lead To Her Really Starting To Like You. N' You Got Talent.. USE IT! Write Her Sumthing Deep After A Few Days Of Hanging Out.. Try This, See If It Works

I am NOT writing her anything. She laughs at the fact i even post here ..

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