Originally Posted by SPuL aka Reckless

.............I've noticed that on RV, AND in the hip-hop community as a whole, the majority think that love is pussy, and that you should be a pimp or player. Go around having sex with a different girl everynight, and playing with their emotions and such to their advantage. These people see this as "cool". As you can see in all the music video nowadays. Barely covered women, all throwing themselves over the rapper, and getting drunk with them and such. I, myself, don't see ANY reason at ALL why this would be considered "cool". I mean what makes you so "cool", or "gangsta", by treating a girl like dirt? Why is it so cool to have sex with every single girl you meet? I mean, I hear about people who been doing it since they 11, and keep playing girls, having sex with them and shit. Hopefully the lil' bastards end up getting HIV, herpes, or some sort of STD.
..............And to talk about the love being pussy... WHY? Why is it so bad to react to your natural feelings of being attracted to the opposite sex? I mean God created us to have feelings like that, so why should people be calling love "pussy"? Is something God himself wanted us to feel, pussy? I don't think so. The people who started this extremely stupid title for love, must be some lonely ass pimpled faced motherfuckas, who probably got rejected by 100+ women, and prolly 20+ men as well. Then the sad part is this. For example:
...............12 year old Bobby is a big hip-hop fan. He doesn't like listening to the radio, so he turns the TV onto MTV2. He is happy to see that it is on "Hip-Hop countdown" on "Sucka Free Sunday, AIIGHT?!?". His favorite song, "On Fire", comes on and he happily turns the volume up in anticipation. As he is watching, Bobby sees Lloyd Banks rapping away acting all thugged out, dropping shit on guards, and then he sees all these barely covered ladies shaking it like they punch drunk or some shit. In one clip this girl pretends to take off her bra, but doesn't do it. He also sees Lloyd Banks and 50 Cent near a pool with many different women. After seeing this Bobby thinks to himself, "Damn, fuck this love shit. I wanna be like 50, yo. 20+ women. Damn, yo. I wanna be a P.I.M.P. Fuck love!!! fuckin' whipped losers." He then turns TV off and goes off to do his so called "Pimping".
.......... ^Ok shit, like this is the reason why more and more people keep thinking love is pussy, and that they NEED to play women and be lil Pimps to be considered "cool". I don't blame people who talk bad on hip-hop for this. There are soo many nice songs out there, that send good messages. Songs like "Just A Moment", "Lose Yourself", etc. But what songs get the most song play? songs that say "Down these females crawl, down to my sweaty balls". So the people who ain't "hip-hoppers", only see this side of hip-hop, and then have a bad attitude towards hip-hop. Hip-hop is killing itself by potraying this image. Hip-hop really should focus on making their songs with POSITIVE messages be the songs that they play around the most. But then again, artists want to sell and make money, so I don't think that will ever happen. So there's nothing that can be done.
............Also, another topic. If a guy who is going out with a girl, shows his girl a lot of attention and treats her right (Which he SHOULD), his friends call him "whipped" and "She got you on a leash". I mean, seriously, again, WHAT THE FUCK? Just because you might be some ugly little pimpled faced brat, and don't have a girlfriend, doesn't mean you can make fun of someone who is in love. If you're in love, and you're going out with a girl, you should treat her with the utmost respect, block out what your so called "Friends" say to you. I find that mostly it's the people who jealous of the guy being in a relationship and shit like that. Me, myself, I was REAL close friends with this girl. And we used to chill a lot, and I used to walk her to class and shit, and if she didn't have any money, I'd lend her a dollar. My friends were like, you're whipped, and shit like that. I mean, damn, this type of peer pressure is another reason why people go in the wrong direction towards "Pimpmanship". Seriously, just block out your "friends" and do what comes natural to you.
...............In conclusion, girls are people too. You should treat them how you want people to treat you: with respect. If everyone is hating on you for being in love, just grow some balls and just ignore the hate, and keep doing what you do. I mean, really, which would you rather be: Someone who meets a girl in high school and end up marrying her in your early 20's. And having a nice family with her and a nice long relationship that lasts till you die, around 70 or 80. Or someone who is a "pimp", who plays girls till he like 30, and then realizes, that he should get a girl to be with for the rest of his life or so, but can't because he has a reputation for being a "player" and no girl will want to have a relationship with him. And as his looks go away, and he loses his hair (if he had hair to start out with), and then he starts getting none. And he lives out a lonely life and dies without a loving wife. You choose.

Originally Posted by ~Lady Fiya~

I see sex as a spiritual level. Making yourself equal with someone not an easy fuck or just something to do because you been feeling this guy for so long and he been wanting it. It's something that's enjoyed more if you have a compatibility. When you have sex with someone you love (for those that have), then you know exactly what i mean. Believe it or not, you are sharing more than just your flesh with someone it's almost like a covalent bond. You can "feel" that person when you not even with them. I'mma stop before i go passed some of y'allz mindset. It's more spiritual than anything whether you accept it or not.

Originally Posted by ~Lady Fiya~

you can be in love and still "live your life to the fullest"... who knows when you'll die, you could easily pass up someone that is your love and "expect them to wait for you" but everyone isn't like that. that's another thing i don't get is why people have so much sex and party and fuck fuck fuck and then expect their wife to be a virgin and want someone pure to settle down with. It's selfish and contradicting. It's not everyone but there's a lotta people who's like that.. with the gimme that girl right there but i want this church girl later. There was a debate about this the other day at my school.

Originally Posted by Aurora Sky

Originally Posted by lyricalflowz

Love is stronger than sex. Strictly my opinion. All sex is, is one of the many ways to show how much you love someone.