This type of forum can cause rediculous amount of load time. So heres a few tips on using the forum to save sitting there for a few days waiting for things to load.

Refresh tab is your freind.
If you click to play one video or song, then half way through decide you want to watch another one, Instead of clicking a second or third video and causing numerous videos to be loading. Hit the refresh button, which will stop your previous video loading, giving you a quicker load speed for the next video you want to watch.

Leaving the forum
If refreshing aint your thing, leave the forum and return, this will stop any videos your loading, again, letting you pick one video to watch, instead of having a few loading slowing your precious viewing time down.