Originally Posted by ~Lady Fiya~

I see sex as a spiritual level. Making yourself equal with someone not an easy fuck or just something to do because you been feeling this guy for so long and he been wanting it. It's something that's enjoyed more if you have a compatibility. When you have sex with someone you love (for those that have), then you know exactly what i mean. Believe it or not, you are sharing more than just your flesh with someone it's almost like a covalent bond. You can "feel" that person when you not even with them. I'mma stop before i go passed some of y'allz mindset. It's more spiritual than anything whether you accept it or not.

Originally Posted by ~Lady Fiya~

you can be in love and still "live your life to the fullest"... who knows when you'll die, you could easily pass up someone that is your love and "expect them to wait for you" but everyone isn't like that. that's another thing i don't get is why people have so much sex and party and fuck fuck fuck and then expect their wife to be a virgin and want someone pure to settle down with. It's selfish and contradicting. It's not everyone but there's a lotta people who's like that.. with the gimme that girl right there but i want this church girl later. There was a debate about this the other day at my school.