personally, i don't think this is the right forum for this... there's a lotta younger kats on this site don't want or need to be influenced by homosexuality... this kind of stuff should be talked about in a more mature forum (as in older folks who are open minded about such things)... i, personally, don't see what would attract a man to another man but if that's how you roll then do you... in the military we got a don't ask don't tell policy... of course there are gay folks in the army but as long as they don't talk about it or act on it openly then it's all good... you might wanna talk to a therapist or a close relative if the issue is bothering you like that... this ain't the place for it