One thing you need to make sure... If you like the gurl as much as you say you do... Pride will not be an issue, so dont stress that " am I a bitch " shit. Personally I think the age diffence might be the problem in the longer run. Figuring your probably more responsible and mature than she is. Especially if she cant handle being waisted and handling her emotions properly... Its tough, hell im havin problems myself with this gurl, lol... But it all comes down to what you think... The main thing is,

Is it worth It?

just ask youself questions. Act as if your the one looking at the situation as an outsider. It helps me out when I relax and do that. Im just sayin, if her emotions were all towards you. Then she would have told the ex to stay away, and keep your feelings put first. Im not tryna be the bad guy and tell you bullshit or nothin. Just dont get yourself in a situation of hurt, no matter how good it is... This is my motto... " Satan has many faces "

goodluck though man, I hope it all works out for you...

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