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Originally Posted by Flow Intelligent
Ok let me break down the facts for everyone, and if you got any advice post it here..
Ive been dating this girl Maryann for about 8 months, and i know thats not a long time but i do love her. She's been there for me and vice versa. But recently she lost her job her house and she gave custody of her daughter to her ex for 6 months and now he's fighting for custody which i think he'll win. Anyways, she moved in with me and everything was fine until a couple weeks ago. She started getting whiny and she always complains about something or gets an attitude with me over little things so its really stressing me out. So now for the twist..... An old friend of mine popped into my life again and i've been kicking game to her for over 2 years, and she used to blow me off cuz she was with someone.. but i always knew she wanted to be with me. So now im stuck in between a rock and a hard place, they both look good, and theyre both smart. And theyre cool people to chill with... But ill feel terrible if i just drop Maryann while she's going through all this shit. But deep down i know i have more feelings for the other girl.
And ideas ......?
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#1...Lemme say that I'm single by choice...I was in a relationship last year with this guy who decided he was bisexual and couldn't just be with a guy...To make a long story short, it was a terrible break up...I'm talkin about tires slashed, threats, police being called...All kinds of weird shit...He got me fired from my job...Thank God I was able to get another one 2 months later...
Anyway...After that traumatizing experience, I decided I wanted to jus be single and chill...Problem is, 1 month turned into 2, into 3, into 4, and now a year...Don't get me wrong, I go out occasionally and chill and get what I need--if you know what I mean. But, I call people associates now and nothing more...my close fam/friends I can count on 1 hand.
I have one question for you. Why did you feel it necessary to move her into your place? To me, isn't that almost pitying her? Honestly, it seems you have more to lose than she does. I would find a way to move her out of your place dawg...seriously...that can only be a bad situation...What if she cheats or you cheat?...She has the keys to your domain...THAT'S SCARY SHIT.
I say follow your heart.
11-13-05, 03:46 PM
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